4: Displaying a completely closed mind. That can apply to things of like, things I know, or things I have an opinion about.
3: Not respecting my strange modesty. Do not post lascivious things to me in public: my “bedside manner” is generally reserved for “bedside”.
2: Don’t try to tell me how to do my job, especially of you weren’t trained on exactly the same equipment, so to speak.
1: I will give you ample opportunity and even leads to place a well-timed magic word. Missing them consistently or, worse yet, using them to deliver a demeaning remark will not end well for any affection I might’ve had.